Chapter 3 #13
Willem put down his lamb sandwich and took a breath.
“Okay,” he said. “What I really want for my birthday is for you to tell me who Brother Luke is. And not just who he is, but what your—your relationship with him was, and why you think you keep calling out his name at night.” He looked at him.
“I want you to be honest, and thorough, and tell me the whole story. That’s what I want. ”
There was a long silence. He realized he still had a mouthful of food, and he somehow swallowed it, and put down his sandwich as well, which he was still holding aloft.
“Willem,” he said at last, because he knew that Willem was serious, and that he wouldn’t be able to dissuade him, to convince him to wish for something else, “part of me does want to tell you. But if I do—” He stopped.
“But if I do, I’m afraid you’re going to be disgusted by me.
Wait,” he said, as Willem began to speak.
He looked at Willem’s face. “I promise you I will. I promise you. But—but you’re going to have to give me some time.
I’ve never really discussed it before, and I need to figure out how to say the words. ”
“Okay,” Willem said at last. “Well.” He paused. “How about if we work up to it, then? I ask you about something easier, and you answer that, and you’ll see that it’s not so bad, talking about it? And if it is, we’ll discuss that, too.”
He inhaled; exhaled. This is Willem , he reminded himself. He would never hurt you, not ever. It’s time. It’s time . “Okay,” he said, finally. “Okay. Ask me.”
He could see Willem leaning back in his chair and staring at him, trying to determine which to choose of the hundreds of questions that one friend should be able to ask another and yet he had never been allowed to do.
Tears came to his eyes, then, for how lopsided he had let their friendship become, and for how long Willem had stayed with him, year after year, even when he had fled from him, even when he had asked him for help with problems whose origins he wouldn’t reveal.
In his new life, he promised himself, he would be less demanding of his friends; he would be more generous.
Whatever they wanted, he would give them.
If Willem wanted information, he could have it, and it was up to him to figure out how to give it to him.
He would be hurt again and again—everyone was—but if he was going to try, if he was going to be alive, he had to be tougher, he had to prepare himself, he had to accept that this was part of the bargain of life itself.
“Okay, I’ve got one,” Willem said, and he sat up straighter, readying himself. “How did you get the scar on the back of your hand?”
He blinked, surprised. He wasn’t sure what the question was going to be, but now that it had come, he was relieved.
He rarely thought of the scar these days, and now he looked at it, its taffeta gleam, and as he ran his fingertips across it, he thought of how this scar led to so many other problems, and then to Brother Luke, and then to the home, and to Philadelphia, to all of it.
But what in life wasn’t connected to some greater, sadder story? All Willem was asking for was this one story; he didn’t need to drag everything else behind it, a huge ugly snarl of difficulties.
He thought about how he could start, and plotted what he’d say in his head before he opened his mouth.
Finally, he was ready. “I was always a greedy kid,” he began, and across the table, he watched Willem lean forward on his elbows, as for the first time in their friendship, he was the listener, and he was being told a story.
He was ten, he was eleven. His hair grew long again, longer even than it had been at the monastery.
He grew taller, and Brother Luke took him to a thrift store, where you could buy a sack of clothes and pay by the pound.
“Slow down!” Brother Luke would joke with him, pushing down on the top of his head as if he were squashing him back to a smaller size. “You’re growing up too fast for me!”
He slept all the time now. In his lessons, he was awake, but as the day turned to late afternoon, he would feel something descend upon him, and would begin yawning, unable to keep his eyes open.
At first Brother Luke joked about this as well—“My sleepyhead,” he said, “my dreamer”—but one night, he sat down with him after the client had left.
For months, years, he had struggled with the clients, more out of reflex than because he thought he was capable of making them stop, but recently, he had begun to simply lie there, inert, waiting for whatever was going to happen to be over.
“I know you’re tired,” Brother Luke had said.
“It’s normal; you’re growing. It’s tiring work, growing.
And I know you work hard. But Jude, when you’re with your clients, you have to show a little life; they’re paying to be with you, you know—you have to show them you’re enjoying it.
” When he said nothing, the brother added, “Of course, I know it’s not enjoyable for you, not the way it is with just us, but you have to show a little energy, all right?
” He leaned over, tucked his hair behind his ear. “All right?” He nodded.
It was also around then that he began throwing himself into walls.
The motel they were staying in—this was in Washington—had a second floor, and once he had gone upstairs to refill their bucket of ice.
It had been a wet, slippery day, and as he was walking back, he had tripped and fallen, bouncing the entire way downstairs.
Brother Luke had heard the noise his fall made and had run out.
Nothing had been broken, but he had been scraped and was bleeding, and Brother Luke had canceled the appointment he had for that evening.
That night, the brother had been careful with him, and had brought him tea, but he had felt more alive than he had in weeks.
Something about the fall, the freshness of the pain, had been restorative.
It was honest pain, clean pain, a pain without shame or filth, and it was a different sensation than he had felt in years.
The next week, he went to get ice again, but this time, on his way back to the room, he stopped in the little triangle of space beneath the stairwell, and before he was conscious of what he was doing, he was tossing himself against the brick wall, and as he did so, he imagined he was knocking out of himself every piece of dirt, every trace of liquid, every memory of the past few years.
He was resetting himself; he was returning himself to something pure; he was punishing himself for what he had done.
After that, he felt better, energized, as if he had run a very long race and then had vomited, and he had been able to return to the room.
Eventually, however, Brother Luke realized what he was doing, and there had been another talk.
“I understand you get frustrated,” Brother Luke said, “but Jude, what you’re doing isn’t good for you.
I’m worried about you. And the clients don’t like seeing you all bruised.
” They were silent. A month ago, after a very bad night—there had been a group of men, and after they had left, he had sobbed, wailed, coming as close to a tantrum as he had in years, while Luke sat next to him and rubbed his sore stomach and held a pillow over his mouth to muffle the sound—he had begged Luke to let him stop.
And the brother had cried and said he would, that there was nothing more he’d like than for it to be just the two of them, but he had long ago spent all his money taking care of him.
“I don’t regret it for an instant, Jude,” said the brother, “but we don’t have any money now.
You’re all I’ve got. I’m so sorry. But I’m really saving now; eventually, you’ll be able to stop, I promise. ”
“When?” he had sobbed.
“Soon,” said Luke, “soon. A year. I promise,” and he had nodded, although he had long since learned that the brother’s promises were meaningless.
But then the brother said that he would teach him a secret, something that would help him relieve his frustrations, and the next day he had taught him to cut himself, and had given him a bag already packed with razors and alcohol wipes and cotton and bandages.
“You’ll have to experiment to see what feels best,” the brother had said, and had shown him how to clean and bandage the cut once he had finished.
“So this is yours,” he said, giving him the bag.
“You let me know when you need more supplies, and I’ll get them for you.
” He had at first missed the theatrics, the force and weight, of his falls and his slams, but he soon grew to appreciate the secrecy, the control of the cuts.
Brother Luke was right: the cutting was better.
When he did it, it was as if he was draining away the poison, the filth, the rage inside him.
It was as if his old dream of leeches had come to life and had the same effect, the effect he had always hoped it would.
He wished he was made of metal, of plastic: something that could be hosed down and scrubbed clean.
He had a vision of himself being pumped full of water and detergent and bleach and then blasted dry, everything inside him made hygienic again.
Now, after the final client of the night had left, he took Brother Luke’s place in the bathroom, and until he heard the brother telling him it was time to come to bed, his body was his to do with what he chose.