30. Nichole
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Nichole
Olivia hits me at a dead run.
I’m barely through the front door when she comes flying down the marble hall, the same hall she crossed a lifetime ago, past twelve better-dressed women, to climb into my lap.
Her feet slap against the cold floor and her arms are already reaching before she gets to me, and I go down on both knees and catch her and hold on hard enough to bruise.
She’s sobbing. I’m sobbing. Neither of us says anything for a long time.
Her arms are locked around my neck and her whole body is shaking against mine, and she keeps saying it over and over, “you came back, you came back, you came back,” and I keep saying “I told you I would, baby, I told you,” and the two of us stay there on the floor until the shaking stops and my knees have gone numb against the marble and the light through the windows has shifted from afternoon to something softer.
Behind us, somewhere in the doorway, I can feel Callum watching. He doesn’t come closer. He doesn’t try to join this. He just stands there and lets it happen, lets his daughter cling to the woman who walked out six days ago, and I am grateful for that even though I cannot say so.
When Olivia finally loosens her grip, I lean back enough to see her face. Her eyes are swollen and red, her cheeks blotchy, her nose running freely. She looks exactly like I feel.
“I thought you were gone forever,” she whispers. “Like before. Like when I was a baby and you went away.”
The words go through me like a knife.
“I know, sweetheart. I know you thought that. And I’m so sorry I scared you.” I wipe her face with my thumbs, gentle, the way I’ve done a hundred times after nightmares and scraped knees and the small heartbreaks of being six. “Can we go sit somewhere and talk? Just you and me?”
She nods, still hiccupping, and takes my hand.
We end up on the floor of her room with the one-eared rabbit between us and the late afternoon light coming through the windows. She sits cross-legged across from me, her small face serious and waiting, and I try to find the smallest, truest words I have.
“When you were born,” I tell her, “I was your mommy. Your first one. I held you in my arms in a hospital room, and you were so small and so perfect, and I loved you more than I had ever loved anything in my whole life.”
Olivia’s eyes are huge and dark, taking in every word.
“But then someone told me you had gone away. That I couldn’t keep you anymore.” My voice wants to break but I don’t let it, not yet. “And I believed them, because I didn’t know any better. Because I was young and scared and alone, and they told me there was nothing I could do.”
“Who told you that?”
“Some people who should have helped me. Some people who lied.” I take her small hands in mine.
“And I was very, very sad for a very long time. For six whole years, baby. I thought about you every single day. I wondered who you were and what you looked like and whether you were happy. And it hurt so much that sometimes I couldn’t breathe. ”
Olivia’s chin is trembling. “That’s a long time to be sad.”
“It is. It’s the longest time.” I squeeze her hands gently. “And then I came to this house. And I met you. And I loved you before I even understood why. Something in me knew you, Olivia. Something in me recognized you the very first moment you crossed that hall and climbed into my lap.”
“I remember that,” she says softly. “You talked to Rabbit.”
“I did.”
“And you didn’t use the silly voice. Everyone else uses the silly voice when they talk to kids, like we can’t tell they’re being fake.” She reaches for the rabbit and tucks him under her chin. “But you just talked to me like I was a real person.”
“Because you are a real person. The realest person I know.”
She’s quiet for a long moment, working through everything I’ve said with the whole of her small serious face. I can almost see the thoughts moving behind her eyes, arranging themselves into something she can hold.
“So you didn’t leave me on purpose,” she says finally. “The first time.”
“Baby, I would have burned the entire world down to get to you. I would have walked through fire. I would have done anything, anything at all, if I had known you were still here. If I had known you were alive.”
“So you’re my real mommy. The one I came from.”
“Yes.”
She considers this for another long moment. Then, very matter-of-factly, reaching for the rabbit and adjusting his one remaining ear: “I already knew that.”
I laugh, wet and broken. “You did?”
“The first day. When you talked to Rabbit and you didn’t use the silly voice.” She scoots closer to me, close enough to lean against my side. “I picked you. Right away, I picked you. I just didn’t know the word for why. I didn’t know there was a word.”
“What word, sweetheart?”
“Mom.” She says it simply, like it’s obvious. Like she’s been waiting six years to say it and now she finally can. “You were always my mom. I could feel it. Even before anybody told me.”
I pull her into my arms and hold her against my chest and let the tears come, because there’s no point in hiding them anymore.
My daughter is in my arms. My daughter knows me.
My daughter picked me out of a room full of strangers when she was five years old, before either of us understood what we were finding.
“Can I call you that now?” she asks, her voice muffled against my shirt. “Can I call you Mom?”
“You can call me anything you want, baby. Anything in the whole world.”
“Mom,” she says again, testing it out. “Mom. Mommy. Mama.” She lifts her head and grins at me, her face still blotchy but lighter now, something settled in her eyes that wasn’t there before. “I like Mom the best. It sounds like you.”
That night, after she’s finally asleep, after four stories instead of one, after I’ve promised eleven times that I’ll be there in the morning and twice more that I’ll never leave again without telling her where I’m going, I slip out of her room and find Callum in the dark hall outside her door.
He’s leaning against the wall like he’s been there for hours. Like he’s been waiting this whole time, not sure if he was allowed to be anywhere else.
I close Olivia’s door carefully behind me and face him.
“I’m not staying for you,” I say, before he can speak. “I want that clear. I came back for her. I will always come back for her.”
“I know.” His voice is quiet in the dark. Careful.
“And I haven’t forgiven you. I don’t know if I can.
I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to look at you and not see six years of her life that I didn’t get.
Six years of first steps and first words and nightmares I wasn’t there to soothe.
Some days I’m going to look at you and all I’ll be able to see is what I lost.”
“I know that too.” He doesn’t argue. That’s the new thing about him, the thing that started somewhere in that study when I confronted him with the file.
He’s stopped arguing. He’s stopped defending.
He just stands there and takes it, whatever I hand him, like he knows he deserves all of it and more.
“So let me make it simple. Stay. For her. Not for me. I’m not asking you to want me.
I’m not asking you to forgive me or understand me or even look at me if you don’t want to. ”
“Then what are you asking?”
“I won’t touch you. I won’t ask you for a single thing.
I won’t so much as look at you across a room in a way you didn’t invite.
” He pushes off the wall and takes a step toward me, then stops himself, like he’s remembering his own rules.
“Separate rooms. Two lives under one roof. Whatever distance you need, you have it. You keep your key to that door, I’ll keep my hands to myself, and you never owe me anything. Ever.”
“That’s not a marriage. That’s barely even a roommate situation.”
“I don’t care what it is.” His voice breaks slightly on the words.
“I would rather have you in this house hating me than anywhere else on this earth. I would rather pass you in the hallway every morning and have you not speak to me than know you were somewhere I couldn’t reach.
I would rather spend the rest of my life watching you love our daughter and having you never look at me again than go one more day without both of you under this roof. ”
I stare at him in the darkness. This man who bought a wife because he thought that was how the world worked.
This man who took a baby from his mother’s arms without asking a single question because he wanted her so badly he couldn’t bear to know the truth.
This man who tore his own family apart to give me back the thing his mother stole.
I should hate him. Part of me does hate him. Part of me will probably always hate him, for the six years and the not asking and the fact that he got to hold her when she was brand new and I didn’t.
But he’s also the man who counted eleven minutes on a marble floor. The man who reads her bedtime stories in voices that make her laugh. The man who just offered to spend the rest of his life in the same house as me without ever asking for anything in return.
And I am so tired. So tired of fighting, of running, of holding up walls against everyone who tries to get close. I have nowhere my daughter is not. I have nothing left but her and the wreckage of a life I’m still trying to piece together.
“For her,” I hear myself say. The smallest yes there is.
“For her,” he agrees.
And so it begins, the strangest arrangement of my life.
I sleep in a room down the hall from a man I’m married to and can’t forgive.
I pass him in the kitchen at seven and don’t speak, just pour my coffee and take it to the table where Olivia is eating her breakfast, and he pours his own and takes it to the study without a word.
I watch him be unfailingly gentle with our daughter, watch him braid her hair and tie her shoes and tell her she’s the best thing he’s ever done, and I hate how much it undoes me.
I hate how hard it is to stay angry at a man who loves his child the way he loves her.
Every night I lie awake behind a door I keep locked, listening to a house full of the sound of a man who is keeping every single promise he made.
He doesn’t knock. He doesn’t hover. He doesn’t look at me with longing or hope or anything at all.
He gives me exactly what he said he would give me: distance.
Space. The room to hate him if I want to.
And I discover, to my horror, that a man who keeps his word is so much harder to stay angry at than a man who breaks it.