29. To Life — continued #2
I wish you would not write and worry your poor old grandmother, who has been so good to you.
You must try and put up with things; you cannot expect to find it like holidaying at Caddagat.
Be careful not to give offence to anyone, as it would be awkward for us.
What is wrong with the place? Have you too much work to do?
Do you not get sufficient to eat? Are they unkind to you, or what?
Why don’t you have sense and not talk of getting another place, as it is utterly impossible; and unless you remain there, how are we to pay the interest on that money?
I’ve always been a good mother to you, and the least you might do in return is this, when you know how we are situated. Ask God but no, against my earnest pleadings she had forced me here, and now would not heed my cry.
And to whom in all the world can we turn when our mother spurns our prayer?
There never was any sympathy between my mother and myself.
We are too unlike. She is intensely matter-of-fact and practical, possessed of no ambitions or aspirations not capable of being turned into cash value.
She is very ladylike, and though containing no spice of either poet or musician, can take a part in conversation on such subjects, and play the piano correctly, because in her young days she was thus cultivated; but had she been born a peasant, she would have been a peasant, with no longings unattainable in that sphere.
She no more understood me than I understand the works of a watch.
She looked upon me as a discontented, rebellious, bad child, possessed of evil spirits, which wanted trouncing out of me; and she would have felt that she was sinning had she humoured me in any way, so after cooling I did not blame her for her letters.
She was doing her duty according to her lights.
Again, it was this way, grannie did not come to my rescue on this occasion on account of her attitude towards my father.
The Bossiers were not at enmity with him, but they were so disgusted with his insobriety that they never visited Possum Gully, and did not assist us as much as they would have done had my father’s failure been attributable to some cause more deserving of sympathy.
After reading my letters I wept till every atom of my body writhed with agonized emotion. I was aroused by Mrs M’Swat hammering at my door and inquiring:
‘What ails ye, child? Did ye git bad noos from home?’
I recovered myself as by a miracle, and replied, no; that I was merely a little homesick, and would be out presently.
I wrote again to my mother, but as I could not truthfully say I was hungry or ill-treated, for, according to their ability, the M’Swats were very kind to me, she took no notice of my plaint, but told me that instead of complaining of monotony, it would suit me better if I cleared up the house a little.
Acting upon this advice, I asked Mr M’Swat to put a paling fence round the house, as it was useless trying to keep the house respectable while the fowls and pigs ran in every time the door was opened.
He was inclined to look with favour upon the proposition, but his wife sat upon it determinedly — said the fowls would lose the scraps. ‘Would it not be possible to throw them over the fence to the fowls?’ I asked; but this would cause too much waste, she considered.
Next I suggested that the piano should be tuned, but they were united in their disapproval of such a fearful extravagance. ‘The peeany makes a good nise. What ails it?’
Then I suggested that the children should be kept tidier, for which I was insulted by their father.
I wanted them to be dressed up like swells, and if he did that he would soon be a pauper like my father.
This I found was the sentiment of the whole family regarding me.
I was only the daughter of old hard-up Melvyn, consequently I had little weight with the children, which made things very hard for me as a teacher.
One day at lunch I asked my mistress if she would like the children to be instructed in table-manners. ‘Certainly,’ her husband replied, so I commenced.
‘Jimmy, you must never put your knife in your mouth.’
‘Pa does at any rate,’ replied Jimmy.
‘Yes,’ said pa; ‘and I’m a richer man today than them as didn’t do it.’
‘Liza, do not put a whole slice of bread to your mouth like that, and cram so. Cut it into small pieces.’
‘Ma doesn’t,’ returned Liza.
‘Ye’ll have yer work cut out with ’em,’ laughed Mrs M’Swat, who did not know how to correct her family herself, and was too ignorant to uphold my authority.
That was my only attempt at teaching manners there. In the face of such odds it was a bootless task, and as there were not enough knives and forks to go round, I could not inculcate the correct method of handling those implements.
Mrs M’Swat had but one boiler in which to do all her cooking, and one small tub for the washing, and there was seldom anything to eat but bread and beef; and this was not because they were poor, but because they did not know, or want to know, any better.
Their idea of religion, pleasure, manners, breeding, respectability, love, and everything of that ilk, was the possession of money, and their one idea of accumulating wealth was by hard sordid dragging and grinding.
A man who rises from indigence to opulence by business capabilities must have brains worthy of admiration, but the man who makes a fortune as M’Swat of Barney’s Gap was making his must be dirt mean, grasping, narrow-minded, and soulless — to me the most uncongenial of my fellows.
I wrote once more to my mother, to receive the same reply. One hope remained. I would write to aunt Helen. She understood me somewhat, and would know how I felt.
Acting on this inspiration, I requested her to plead for me.
Her answer came as a slap in the face, as I had always imagined her above the common cant of ordinary religionists.
She stated that life was full of trials.
I must try and bear this little cross patiently, and at the end of a year they might have me back at Caddagat.
A year! A year at Barney’s Gap! The possibility of such a thing made me frantic.
I picked up my pen and bitterly reproached my aunt in a letter to which she did not deign to reply; and from that day to this she has rigidly ignored me — never so much as sending me the most commonplace message, or casually using my name in her letters to my mother.
Aunt Helen, is there such a thing as firm friendship when even yours — best of women — quibbled and went under at the hysterical wail from the overburdened heart of a child?
My predecessor, previous to her debut at Barney’s Gap, had spent some time in a lunatic asylum, and being a curious character, allowed the children to do as they pleased, consequently they knew not what it meant to be ruled, and were very bold.
They attempted no insubordination while their father was about the house, but when he was absent they gave me a dog’s life, their mother sometimes smiling on their pranks, often lazily heedless of them, but never administering any form of correction.
If I walked away from the house to get rid of them, they would follow and hoot at me; and when I reproved them they informed me they were not going ‘to knuckle under to old Melvyn’s darter, the damnedest fool in the world, who’s lost all his prawperty, and has to borry money off of pa.’
Did I shut myself in my room, they shoved sticks in the cracks and made grimaces at me.
I knew the fallacy of appealing to their father, as they and their mother would tell falsehoods, and my word would not be taken in contradiction of theirs.
I had experience of this, as the postmistress had complained of Jimmy, to be insulted by his father, who could see no imperfection in his children.
M’Swat was much away from home at that time.
The drought necessitated the removal of some of his sheep, for which he had rented a place eighty miles coastward.
There he left them under the charge of a man, but he repaired thither frequently to inspect them.
Sometimes he was away from home a fortnight at a stretch.
Peter would be away at work all day, and the children took advantage of my defenceless position.
Jimmy was the ringleader. I could easily have managed the others had he been removed.
I would have thrashed him well at the start but for the letters I constantly received from home warning me against offence to the parents, and knew that to set my foot on the children’s larrikinism would require measures that would gain their mother’s ill-will at once.
But when M’Swat left home for three weeks Jim got so bold that I resolved to take decisive steps towards subjugating him.
I procured a switch — a very small one, as his mother had a great objection to corporal punishment — and when, as usual, he commenced to cheek me during lessons, I hit him on the coat-sleeve.
The blow would not have brought tears from the eyes of a toddler, but this great calf emitted a wild yope, and opening his mouth let his saliva pour on to his slate.
The others set up such blood-curdling yells in concert that I was a little disconcerted, but I determined not to give in.
I delivered another tap, whereupon he squealed and roared so that he brought his mother to his rescue like a ton of bricks on stilts, a great fuss in her eyes which generally beamed with a cowful calm.