21. Roman
ROMAN
The first thing they take is the phone, and I hand it over like it’s a live thing that might bite me on the way out of my hand.
Intake is a folding table, a kind woman with a clipboard, a plastic bin.
Into the bin goes my phone, my watch, the lighter I don’t even use, a strip of pills they find in my bag that I’d forgotten was there, which tells you everything.
The phone is the one that matters. I put it in the bin face-down so I don’t have to see the screen light up.
The second it leaves my fingers I feel the panic, then, right behind it, the same ugly relief I felt in the hospital, because his number lives in that phone and I am not yet a man who can be trusted to own the door to that number.
They tag the bin. They tell me I’ll get it back at the end.
I watch it go into a cabinet and think, good, and I sign another form.
Detox is its own country and I spend the first stretch of it as its only citizen.
They’ve got a medical wing, real staff, Maren’s people.
They manage the worst of it with a taper, a banana bag, somebody checking my vitals every few hours.
But managed isn’t the same as gone. The skin-doesn’t-fit feeling comes back worse than the hospital.
I sweat through the sheets. My legs do the crawling thing all night so I pace the little room until my feet hurt and then I lie down and they start again.
I throw up twice. There’s a low gray stretch in the middle of it where I can’t remember why I agreed to any of this.
I’d sell the building to make it stop. A nurse named DeShawn sits with me through the worst hour of that one and doesn’t say much, just stays, and somehow stays is enough.
And then, slowly, on the far side of it, I come up into a morning where my hands are steady for the first time in months.
Just steady. Holding a paper cup of bad coffee without it shaking.
The surface sits flat. No ripple, no tremor climbing up the wax rim.
I look at my own steady hand and I almost cry over it, this thing I used to take for granted, a hand that does what I tell it.
They give me a narrow room, a bed, a window, a wall.
The counselor hands me a printed daily schedule, and I tape it to the wall above the desk.
Wake, meds, breakfast, group, lunch, work assignment, group, dinner, meeting, lights out.
Every hour spoken for. A year ago, a schedule like that would have made me claustrophobic.
Now I stand and look at it taped to the wall.
I feel something I can only call gratitude, because for the first time in longer than I can remember I know exactly what I’m supposed to do next, and not one line of it is find the locked room.
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I meet Russ Delgado in the common room on day four, and he’s the first person here I don’t have to explain my body to.
He’s huge. Older, sixties maybe, but built like what he was, and what he was is written all over him, the shoulders, the nose that’s been broken more than once, how careful and slow he lowers himself into a chair with both hands on the arms because his knees are gone, just gone, bone on bone, two surgeries he tells me later that didn’t take.
He comes over with two coffees, hands me one, and sits down across from me with a grunt.
“Russ,” he says. “They asked me to be your sponsor, if you want one. Fourteen years in. Played eleven of pro before the wheels came off, D-man, nobody you’d remember.
” He takes a sip. “Here’s how I work. I’ll call you, you’ll call me, we’ll do the steps in order and not skip the ones that hurt, which is all of them.
And I’m gonna tell you the one thing I tell everybody on day four, which is that the worst is not behind you, the worst is a Tuesday about four months from now when everything’s fine and you decide you’ve got this handled.
That’s the one that kills guys like us. Not the bottom. The plateau.”
I wait for it. The thing everybody does.
The I’m such a fan, the what was it like?
, the careful circling around the comeback, the knee, the date, all of it.
Russ doesn’t do any of it. He doesn’t ask me about hockey once.
He played a decade of it. He sits there with two ruined knees that match my one rebuilt one, and he does not ask me a single thing about the game, my team, whether I’ll skate again.
I realize, sitting there, that it’s the first conversation I’ve had in a year where I’m not a number on a board or a name on a contract or a body somebody’s measuring for a return.
I’m just a guy on day four with a coffee.
He sees the athlete in me, I can tell he does, he reads my walk like only another wrecked athlete can.
He just doesn’t think it’s the most interesting thing about why I’m here.
Neither, I’m starting to understand, do I.
But here’s what I can’t stop looking at, those first days around Russ: he’s me in twenty years if I’m lucky.
That’s the thing. I’ve spent my whole life terrified of exactly what he is, the broken-down former athlete, the body that gave out, the guy whose knees are bone on bone, and whose playing days are a sentence in a stranger’s memory—nobody you’d remember.
That future has been the monster under my bed since I was a kid, the reason I pushed through injuries I shouldn’t have, the reason a word like done could put me on a bathroom floor.
And here it is, sitting across from me with two coffees, and it isn’t a monster.
Russ is the most solid man I’ve met in a year.
He lost the game, the knees, and, he tells me later, a marriage and most of a decade to the bottle on the way down.
He came out the far side of all of it into something I don’t have a word for yet but want, badly, a way of being a person that doesn’t depend on a scoreboard agreeing that you exist. I built my whole self on the scoreboard.
Russ is proof you can lose the scoreboard and still be here, still be solid, still have something to hand a scared younger guy across a table.
Maybe that’s the work. Maybe the work isn’t getting back to the ice at all.
Maybe it’s becoming a man who’d survive never getting back, so that if I do go back, I go back as a person instead of a number praying the number holds.
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Group is where I find out I’m still a liar, I just got sober enough to watch myself do it.
It’s a circle of folding chairs, eight of us and Maren.
When it’s my turn, I tell my story, and I tell it well.
I’ve got it polished by now; I’ve told versions of it to Theo and to myself for months.
The injury. The pain. The pressure of the comeback, the whole city waiting, the meds that got away from me, the slow slide.
I tell it clean, sad, shaped, a story where things happen to a guy.
A couple of the others nod along because they’ve got the same story with different details.
I feel the old smoothness come over me, the new face I built, the one that says true-sounding things.
I land my ending and sit back. It’s a good performance, and Maren lets me have all of it.
Then, when I’m done, in the quiet, she says, mild as anything, “Who wrote the prescriptions, Roman?”
And the whole polished thing comes apart in my chest. Because in my story the meds got away from me, passive, weatherlike, a thing that happened.
There’s no hand in my story. And her question puts a hand in it.
Somebody wrote them. Somebody I haven’t named, in this room or to myself, not really, not as a person with a pen, because naming him means naming the rest of it, the nights, the locked door, what I went there for, what I did to get it, the fact that I drove drunk to his office and let myself in with a key and asked—every time I asked.
My face goes hot. My pulse roars up like it used to when the monitor tattled.
I can’t. I’m not ready to put him in the room, him or the rest of it, and I do the only thing my body knows how to do when the real thing gets close, which is leave.
I stand up. I mumble something. And I walk out of the circle with eight people watching and Maren not stopping me, just watching me go with no surprise on her face at all, like she’s seen exactly this a hundred times, which she has.
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Three nights in, after lights-out, I break and I call him.
There’s a payphone in the hall, an actual payphone, for approved calls, and I’m not approved for this one and I do it anyway, standing in the dark hallway in my socks with my heart going.
I know his number. I don’t need the phone they locked in the cabinet; the number’s burned into me, ten digits I dialed and texted at two in the morning more times than I’ll ever admit.
I tell myself I just want to hear his voice.
I tell myself it’s not relapse if it’s only a voice.
The truth is dirtier and simpler. The truth is that group cracked me open and the want came roaring back through the crack, the old want, the off-switch, make it stop.
He is still, even here, even now, the direction my pain points.
I feed the coins in. The slot swallows them with a metal clunk that carries down the empty hall.
I dial the ten digits with a shaking finger. I put the sticky receiver to my ear.