Chapter 12 #2
She shifted, sighing heavily before she continued.
“And then there was my dad. He didn’t know what to do with a daughter.
As pissed as he was that his wife left, I think in some ways he was relieved, because he didn’t have to figure out how to fit a woman into his life anymore.
But then I kind of started becoming a woman.
And he really didn’t know what to do. So I learned how to work on cars.
I learned how to talk about sports. I learned how to fit.
Even though it pushed me right out of fitting when it came to school. When it came to making friends.”
He knew these things about Anna. Knew them because he’d absorbed them by being in her house, being near her, for fifteen years. But he’d never heard her say them. There was something different about that.
“You’ve always fit with me, Anna,” he said, his voice rough.
“I know. And even though we’ve never talked about this, I’m pretty sure somehow you knew all of it. You always have. Because you know me. And you accept me. Not very many people know about the musicals. Because it always embarrassed me. Kind of a girlie thing.”
“I guess so,” he said, the words feeling inadequate.
“Also, it was my thing. And... I never like anyone to know how much I care about things. I... My mom loved old musicals,” she said, her voice soft. “Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to watch them with her.”
“Anna...”
“I remember sneaking out of my room at night, seeing the TV flickering in the living room. She would be watching The Sound of Music or Cinderella. Oklahoma! of course. And I would just hang there in the hall. But I didn’t want to interrupt.
Because by the end of the day she was always out of patience, and I knew she didn’t want any of the kids to talk to her.
But it was kind of like watching them with her.
” Anna’s eyes filled with tears. “But now I just wish I had. I wish I had gone in and sat next to her. I wish I had risked her being upset with me. I never got the chance. She left, and that was it. So, maybe she would’ve been mad at me, or maybe she wouldn’t have let me watch them with her.
But at least I would’ve had the answer. Now I just wonder.
I just remember that space between us. Me hiding in the hall, and her sitting on the couch.
She never knew I was there. Maybe if I’d done a better job of connecting with her, she wouldn’t have left. ”
“That’s not true, Anna.”
“She didn’t have anyone to watch the movies with, Chase.
And my dad was so... I doubt he ever gave her a damn scrap of tenderness.
But maybe I could have. I think... I think that’s what I was always trying to do with my dad.
To make up for that. It was too late to make her stay, but I thought maybe I could hang on to him. ”
Chase tried to breathe past the tightness in his chest, but it was nearly impossible.
“Anna,” he said, “any parent that chooses to leave their child...the issue is with them. It was your parents’ marriage.
It was your mom. I don’t know. But it was never you.
It wasn’t you not watching a movie with her, or irritating her, or making her angry. There was never anything you could do.”
She nodded, a tear tracking down her pale cheek. “I do know that.”
“But you still beat yourself up for it.”
“Of course I do.”
He didn’t have a response to that. She said it so matter-of-factly, as though there was nothing else but to blame herself, even if it made no sense.
He had no response because he understood.
Because he knew what it was like to twist a tragedy in a thousand different ways to figure out how you could take it on yourself.
He knew what it was like to live your life with a gaping hole where someone you loved should be.
To try to figure out how you could have stopped the loss from happening.
In the years since his parents’ accident he had moved beyond blame. Not because he was stronger than Anna, just because you could only twist death in so many different directions. It was final. And it didn’t ask you. It just was. Blaming himself would have been a step too far into martyrdom.
Still, he knew about lingering scars and responses to those scars that didn’t make much sense.
But he didn’t know what it was like to have a parent choose to leave you. God knew his parents never would have chosen to abandon their sons.
As if she’d read his mind, Anna continued.
“She’s still out there. I mean, as far as I know.
She could have come back. Anytime. I just feel like if I had given her even a small thing...
well, then, maybe she would have missed me enough at some point.
If she’d had anything back here waiting for her, she could have called. Just once.”
“You were you,” he said. “If that wasn’t enough for her...fuck her.”
She laughed and wiped another tear from her face.
Then she shifted, moving closer to him. “I appreciate that.” She paused for a moment, kissing his shoulder, then she continued.
“It’s amazing. I’ve never told you that before.
I’ve never told anyone that before. It’s just kind of crazy that we could know each other for so long and... there’s still more we don’t know.”