Kink Talk
SubZero: Is it normal for first-time Doms to be…incredibly confident?
SubScribble: Oooh, story time!
DomAndDommer: It’s all about the vibe. If the sub is a complete stranger, there’s a lot more performance anxiety, but my first few times were with a guy I knew, so it was super chill.
SubLime: Zero, did you find yourself a sexy, confident Dom?
SubZero: Kinda. I think it was just an experiment though.
DommyBoy: I’m incredibly jealous of everyone right now. The idea of that first time is fucking terrifying. I wish I could fast forward through that whole awkward thing.
DomAndDommer: Don’t put so much pressure on yourself. You’ve had sex before, right? This is the same thing with some extras.
DomPetty: If it makes you feel better, I’ve fumbled quite a bit.
I practiced a lot, but my first time with a paddle and a real human being…
Oof, I was a mess. I asked that poor guy if he was okay every two minutes.
Thankfully he was pretty experienced and patient, but I was sure he was gonna walk off mid-scene.
DommyBoy: That does make me feel better.
SubLily: Not to crash the Dom party, but Petty makes a good point. Practice is so important. Try the paddles and floggers out on yourself, see how it feels. Go to workshops. Talk to more experienced Doms.
DommyBoy: No, I get it. I’m doing all of that.
SubLime: Hold on to that Dom, Zero. If he was that good his first time, imagine how much better he’ll get with practice.
SubZero: Funny story, not only was he a first-time Dom, he was also a virgin.
SubScribble: What?
SubAir: What?
DomicronPersei8: Are you serious?
DomPetty: Uhh…
DommyBoy: That’s my new role model.